| Location | Halifax |
| Age | 57 years |
| Date of Birth | 7/1950 |
| Date of Death | 7/2007 |
| Visitors | 4,521 since 26/10/2007 |
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this is for my dad whom i love and miss immensily, my dad suffered an awful lot. in his young age he was hard working, and did everything for us.. he devoted his life to us brothers and sisters. then whislt i was doing my gcse's back in 1999 dad fell ill and was hospitalised for 6 weeks diagnosed with TB. that was the start of a painful life.... in 2001 dad suffered minor stroke and was rushed to LGI, where he was in ICU for almost critical 24 hrs, his organs were shutting down... which lead to kidney failure. he was referred to renal dialisys.. after a year dad was put on kidney transplant waiting list, waiting time was approx. 5years. to cut a long story short dad as dad waited he needed to be dialsysed 3 times a week and that interfered with everyday tasks.dad was also diabetic. due to dialisys dad was unable to take a break or go on holidays. within that period me, my sister and my brother married from back home unfortunately doctors were unable to grant dad the permission to dad to give us, his precious daughters away. in 2005 dad got gangrine in his foot and finger, due to that dad had to be removed from the kidney transplant waiting list. after 1 year of suffering with the gangrine docs decided to amputate dads foot and finger to prevent it from spreading. as the wounds were begining to heal we got call to inform us that a suitable match has come for dad, we all cried tears of joy.. except dad.. he waited so long for this, But he didn't look pleased. anyway, the 6hour operation was a success.. but the kidney didn't seem to function.. docs said it can take up to 6weeks.. we waited everyday but no luck. we went everyday to visit him.. sometimes i'd stay with dad for the day.. bathe him.. shave his beard, style his hair etc. we'd watch tv together sometimes dad fell asleep whislt i was talking to him. i'd just smile and watch him sleep, after the transplant dads condition began to deterioate, he lost his mobility.. he had to be fed and changed and i'm greatfull i was blessed to do that. the week before dad left us i took the week off to spend with dad.. i'd go in the morning sometimes till midnight and i stood next to dad the whole time, massaging him, changing him, cleaning him and pamperng him. one day i said to my brother, "if you had a choice which 1 person would you choose over the world?" he was little confused, i wasn't. i said to me bro i know 1 thing, if i had a choice i'd choose dad without hesitation, i'd choose dad over every single person, thing etc. and look the 1 person i lost is the 1 person i was willing to give the world up for. the saddest thing ever is that for 4 months we spent day and night besides dad and the last few hours of his life he was all alone at the hospital, isolated due to infection. when i was told, my whole world came crashing down on me, my family was in pieces. everything happened so quick. i remember when i went to see dad at the hosp, he was just as i left him the night before i couldnt accept it that was my dad. i swear he smiled at me, i tried to wake him he didnt respond. i ran from one side of the bed to the other maybe that would attract his attention but no! i felt helpless. even till this day the walls are eating me, i can smell dad everywhere i go. i cannot comprehend with the sad fact. i feel i have nothing to live for, my dads memories keep me going. i got a job that i loved, an advertising model/actress/presenter.. but nothing means anything to me anymore. i just want my dad. miss and love u dad immensily. please continue to visit me in my dreams. your precious daughter nyla.. x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x
sending you a hug
Hi Nyla - just been reading through your dads tribute and my heart cries for you. I wish I could reach out and put my arms around u and tell u its going to be ok. But it will be ok sweetheart I promise - i pray you find the strenght to continue. We can't question allah's way we have to accept his will and thank him for the special times you have shared with your dad. Our time on earth is just a short journey - you will meet him the hearafter - where we all will stay and we won't have to deal with death. Death isn't the end - it is just a tranistion into a different world. Your dad has gone to a better place where he can rest in peace away from all the suffering.
i remember you from ages ago - we met once/twice you use to live in thomas street and you were Mrs Najma Akhtar's cousin.
life goes on
salaam meri jaan
words cant xpress how much i miss and need u right now,
i really miss u dad deep within myself, life goes on.. yeah. but my life feels like a formality, talking, eating, laughing everything its just a formality, just for the sake of living,
how can i tell u kitna dard, kitni nammi, kitni khamoshi hai mere andar
i dont wana talk to anyone, u knw wot i want
u knw i hate it ere,
i love u dad, thats all i have left.
no real true feelings for anything left.
ill talk to u later
miss u dad
like the desserts miss the rain
pls com and visit me in my dreams
ill go bed on time,
love u and only u
truly
madly deeply
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Salaam Uncle jee...
How are you? I hope bilkul teek hongey. Yaha sab teek nahi he. Apko tho sab pata hena....aap sab kuch dekh rahey he waha sey. In haalat me kya karna chahye??...Aap hi koi ishara de dey....Aap hi kuch duaa kardey, ke yaha sab tik hojaey....or khushiya pheyl jaaey....
Apna khayal rakhna or yaha ke haalato ke barey me sochke pareshan na hona....me hu na...apni koshish jaari he kuch karney ki....
Take care...... Shabba Khaire...
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O Allah
اَللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لِحَيِّنَا وَمَيِّتِنَا وَشَاهِدِنَا وَغَائِبِنَا وَصَغِيْرِنَا وَكَبِيْرِنَا وَذَكَرِنَا وَأُنْثَانَا. اَللَّهُمَّ مَنْ أَحْيَيْتَهُ مِنَّا فَأَحْيِهِ عَلَى اْلإِسْلاَمِ، وَمَنْ تَوَفَّيْتَهُ مِنَّا فَتَوَفَّهُ عَلَى اْلإِيْمَانِ، اَللَّهُمَّ لاَ تَحْرِمْنَا أَجْرَهُ وَلاَ تُضِلَّنَا بَعْدَهُ
Allahum maghfir lihayyina, wa mayyitinaa, wa shaahidina, wa ghaa-'ibina, wa sagheerina, wa kabeerina, wa dhakarrina wa untha. Allahumma man ahyaitahu mina fa ahyihi 'alal Islami wa man tawaf-faytahu mina fatawaffahu 'alal imani. Allahumma la tahrima arjahu wa la tudhillana ba'dahu
O Allah! Forgive our living and our dead, those who are with us and those who are absent, our young and our old, our men and our women. O Allah! Whomever you keep alive from us keep him alive on Islam, and whomever you take away from us, take him as a believer. O Allah! Do not leave us bereft of his good and do not send us astray after them.
[Ibn Majah 1:480, Ahmad 2:368]
Salam Uncle jee...
How r u? Hope u r absolutely fine. Aap se pehle Nani Ami ka bahut afsos karna tha.. Allah Tallah ki marzi ke agey hum insan beybas he. Unka bahut afsos huwa he. Nyla kitni close thi unke. Bass Allah Tallah unko Jannat ul Firdaus me jagga atta farmaey or yaha pe sabko sabar dey, ameen.
Ab sunaey, kya haal chaal he? Ramzan shuru hogaya he. Aapko Ramzan ki bahut mubarak ho.
Apna khayal rakhna or mujhe duao me yaad zarur rakhna........
Take care....
DAD you've gone and i am missing you so much,
Your smile,your scent and most important your touch.
Seeing you laying there it broke my heart,
And knowing you were all alone just tore me apart.
I've cried so many tears and then wiped them away,
Wishing and praying that you would come back to stay.
The memories I hold will last forever,
Of all the times we have spent together.
I know someone will be taking care of you in Jannat above,
So I say goodnight and God bless to my precious DAD I will always love..
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Salaam..
Aap kese he? I hope bilkul teek taak honge. Aap to mujhe nahi jantey, par mene apke barey me bahut suna he. Nyla apko bahut yaad karti he. Yeh to apko pata hi hoga, mujhe bataney ki koi zarurat nahi.
Aj apke liye ghar me khatam tha. Umeed he sab parhayi ka sawaab aap thak pahunch gaya hoga..or aap yeh sab paakey bahut kush honge.
Aap apna bahut khayal rakhna or yaha Nyla ko bhi dekhte raha karey. Usko ab bhi apki bahut zarurat he.
Allah Tallah aapko Jannat-ul-Firdaus me jagga atta karey aur apke sab ghar walo ko sabar dey, ameen..sum-ameen.
Thinking of you...
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